Monday, April 23, 2012

Just Like Old Times


This last weekend was a lot of fun (except that I got sick and lost my voice--but other than that it's been great!). Our wonderful friends David and Teal came to town on their way out to Washington state where they are moving. The top picture shows me with three of Lincoln Home's finest: Gary, Mike, and David, before we went out to dinner at Darcy's on Saturday. Those were the good days when we all worked at the Lincoln Home together. 

The next picture shows David and Teal at the museum visiting Santa Anna's leg. We really enjoyed having them here for a visit. It was so sad when they left to move to Atlanta in 2010! I first met David when I started working at the Lincoln Home. He had already been working there for a couple of years, and we quickly became friends. Then Greg and I met his fiance Teal, and we quickly became friends with her too! One of the highlights of 2011 was attending their wedding in Atlanta. They were seriously some of our very best Springfield friends, and it's hard to describe how sad we were when they left.  

Last night we were reminiscing about the day they left Springfield. It was my birthday, and Greg and I helped them pack boxes and furniture into their moving truck, then we all ate birthday cake and went out to dinner. It had been such a fun evening, but it was too sad to say goodbye to them. So it was fun that we could see them a few times this weekend, but it was sad to say goodbye again. But we are excited for their new jobs and the adventures that they'll have in Washington. For a brief time, it felt just like the good old days having them here!


Thursday, April 19, 2012

Forget Me Not

Today I was remembering that last year at this time, my hopes were particularly high because of a job I had applied for out in Utah. It was the perfect job for me, and I had a very good job interview in May. Needless to say, when I didn't get the job, I was totally crushed. I thought for sure that was Greg's and my chance to get back to Utah, and I couldn't imagine why the job hadn't worked out. My attitude about living in Illinois became even worse than it already was, and I was not happy. Two months later, I was called into the Young Women program at church, and at first I was worried that it would be too stressful and too much work--just another reason to have a bad attitude. But slowly I started to notice my attitude changing a bit. The biggest change came in October when President Uchtdorf gave a talk at the General Relief Society meeting about the forget me not flower. Just as the forget me not has five petals, he gave five truths that we shouldn't forget. The one that stood out to me was "forget not to be happy now." He talked about the story Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and how "people all over the world desperately yearn to find a golden ticket. Some feel that their entire future happiness depends on whether or not a golden ticket falls into their hands. In their anxiousness, people begin to forget the simple joy they used to find in a candy bar. The candy bar itself becomes an utter disappointment if it does not contain a golden ticket." As he was speaking, I thought to my self, "Uh-oh, this sounds like me!" He continued, "So many people today are waiting for their own golden ticket—the ticket that they believe holds the key to the happiness they have always dreamed about. . . . If we spend our days waiting for fabulous roses, we could miss the beauty and wonder of the tiny forget-me-nots that are all around us. This is not to say that we should abandon hope or temper our goals. Never stop striving for the best that is within you. Never stop hoping for all of the righteous desires of your heart. But don’t close your eyes and hearts to the simple and elegant beauties of each day’s ordinary moments that make up a rich, well-lived life. The happiest people I know are not those who find their golden ticket; they are those who, while in pursuit of worthy goals, discover and treasure the beauty and sweetness of the everyday moments. They are the ones who, thread by daily thread, weave a tapestry of gratitude and wonder throughout their lives. These are they who are truly happy." I realized that I was unhappy because I had been waiting for my golden ticket and hadn't truly been enjoying the little things around me. At that point I decided I was going to start looking at things differently and embrace the opportunities that I had. And since that time I have made some of my very best friends and had some wonderful experiences! As I look back and think about the things I would have missed out on if I had gotten that job, I realize that Heavenly Father really did know what was best for me--and I would be sad to have missed out on the priceless friendships and experiences I have gained over the last year. So the moral of this story is to not get discouraged if things aren't working out like you hoped they would. For sure keep hoping that things will work out as they should, and like President Uchtdorf said, continue to pursue your goals, but don't do what I did and get discouraged and sad--try to enjoy the good things around you. Well, those are my DayQuil-induced ramblings for the day :)

Sunday, April 15, 2012

A Night to Remember

I was so proud today at church--whoever chose the songs that we sang this morning picked "Nearer My God to Thee"--the Titanic song on the 100th anniversary of the sinking! Speaking of the 100th anniversary, last night's Titanic commemoration party was a great success! We had so much fun with our good friends. I spent this week getting ready for the big day. Preparations included getting the trivia questions together and finding some vintage-looking Hershey bars (available at Cracker Barrel) for the trivia prizes.

I also did some Titanic-themed decorating around the house using all of my Titanic books (thanks to Mom for the COOL Titanic sticker book!!).




And I made sure that my White Star Line t-shirt was clean and ready to go.










One of my favorite things I found for the party was this pack of White Star Line napkins--aren't they cool?! I ordered these from the Titanic Historical Society. They added the perfect touch to our dinner. Speaking of dinner, we had big plans that Greg would cook like crazy all afternoon on Saturday while I was at work . . . but unfortunately people kept dying, and Greg's boss was out of town, so Greg had to take care of everything. So, Greg and I ended up getting home at about the same time just a little over an hour before everyone arrived for the party. It got a little crazy in the kitchen, but we managed to get everything on the table shortly after our guests arrived. (Greg gets credit for doing most of the cooking while I finished cleaning up the rest of the house.)

The evening's menu included items from the last dinner on the Titanic served in the first class dining room: Chateau potatoes, creamed carrots, asparagus, and salmon (there were A LOT of other things on the menu, but we just picked out some of the most delicious-sounding items to make). We also had a couple of items from the second class dinner menu: curry chicken and cheese biscuits. Greg had the same idea as one of the people Richard works with: that we should serve ICEBERG lettuce salad--hahahaha! But we had so many veggies, we ended up not having salad too. We told everyone about the iceberg lettuce idea though, and they all thought it was very funny.

The only food item missing from the above picture was this, the stuffed salmon. The salmon served on the Titanic was poached, but we served our favorite stuffed salmon from Sam's Club instead. The food was a BIG hit! (Instead of wine, we served sparkling cider and Coke products--everyone seemed okay with our substitutions.)

We're not sure what the kids on the Titanic ate, but the cute kids at our party, Connor and Emma, ate McDonald's Happy Meals which came with these cool Green Lantern masks--Emma was happy to show hers off.


After dinner it was trivia time! I love this picture of our friends, from left to right, Susan, Jen, and Laura. Susan looks so surprised about something!




And here are Rose and Chris showing off their trivia sheets.








And here is John (married to Jen) studiously working on his trivia sheet. (During the trivia game, Greg and the Spikes were keeping the kiddos busy upstairs with some games and TV shows. Poor Lily was hiding from everyone.) Titanic Trivia was a big hit. After our trivia game, we watched the 1958 film "A Night to Remember," which is considered to be the most historically-accurate film about the Titanic. During the movie I served dessert--from the first class menu on April 14--French vanilla ice cream and eclairs! It was such a fun evening, and everyone seemed to have a great time. I'm glad that we could get together with our friends to remember such a significant event in history. I will be 77 years old on the 150th anniversary of the Titanic, so maybe I can plan another commemoration party then!

Friday, April 13, 2012

Titanic Eve








Check out this AMAZING Titanic model that Greg has been working on for the last few weeks!! He just finished it yesterday, and it looks REALLY cool. It will provide the perfect centerpiece on the table for our Titanic party. Tomorrow is the big day--the 100th anniversary of when the Titanic hit the iceberg! It is certainly not an occasion to be celebrated, but definitely commemorated. I think what is so fascinating about the Titanic disaster is that it was so improbable. So many little things went wrong--things that could/should have been prevented. It was a horrible tragedy. So I am happy that at this time of the 100th anniversary we can be especially mindful of the people who lost their lives. Greg and I are looking forward to having some friends over tomorrow evening for our Titanic commemoration party. We did all of our grocery shopping last night. Our menu will include dishes from the last dinner served on the Titanic for both first and second class passengers. One portion of our dinner will not be historically accurate, however--we will not be serving a different type of wine in between each course :)

One highlight of the evening will be our trivia game. Here are the answers to the questions (along with some explanations and information about the other answer choices):

1. B
The "R.M.S." in R.M.S. Titanic stood for Royal Mail Ship. On board the Titanic was a sea post office with five mail clerks who were responsible for the 3,423 sacks of mail being transported on the ship (7 million individual pieces of mail).

2. C
The Titanic was built in Belfast, Ireland. It departed Southampton, England on April 10, 1912, and made stops at Cherbourg, France and Queenstown, Ireland before heading out to sea. The last photograph of the Titanic was taken in Queenstown.

3. D
John Jacob Astor IV was the wealthiest passenger on the Titanic. John Jacob Astor IV was an American businessman, real estate builder, investor, inventor, writer, and Colonel in the Spanish-American War.His estate was worth $150 million in 1912 (which would be $119.2 billion today). He died on the Titanic, but his pregnant wife survived. Benjamin Guggenheim, an American businessman, also died on the Titanic. Isidor Straus was co-owner of the Macy’s department store and served briefly as a member of the US House of Representatives. He and his wife died on the Titanic. (Interestingly, Isidor Straus tried to join the Confederate Army during the Civil War, but he was too young.) Margaret Brown, known by historians as “Unsinkable Molly Brown,” became wealthy through her husband’s efforts as a mining engineer in Colorado. She survived the Titanic disaster.

4. C
The Carpathia was the ship that rescued Titanic survivors. Though it was 58 miles away and was headed in the opposite direction from the Titanic, it immediately changed course upon receiving the Titanic's distress signal. It took the Carpathia almost four hours to reach the Titanic survivors. Interestingly, the Carpathia later sank after being hit by a torpedo from a German U-boat during WWI. The Californian was a steamship that was stopped by ice less than ten miles from the Titanic's location on April 14, 1912. The Californian's wireless operator turned off his headset and went to bed just ten minutes before the Titanic hit the iceberg. The Californian never responded to the distress rockets fired by the Titanic (their captain was asleep, and the subordinate officers didn't know what the rockets meant). Many think that the Californian could have reached the Titanic before it went down if they had immediately headed for it when the distress call was first issued. The Mackay-Bennett was a cable repair ship that was chartered by the White Star Line to recover the bodies of Titanic victims. It recovered 306 of the 1,517 victims. The Olympic was one of two sister ships of the Titanic. It was slightly smaller than the Titanic, but looked almost identical. The other sister ship, the Britannic, sank in 1916. Compared to the Titanic's losses of over 1,500, only 30 died on the Britannic. 1,036 were saved by nearby ships that came to its rescue.

5. A
There were 12 confirmed dogs traveling on the Titanic. One dog, a gift from Benjamin Guggenheim to the Titanic’s captain, Edward Smith, spent the night on board, but was then sent home to Captain Smith’s daughter before the Titanic left port. The Titanic had kennel facilities, and it is even reported that an on board dog show was scheduled for April 15, 1912. Only three of the 12 dogs survived—a Pekingese and two Pomeranians. Some of the dogs who didn’t survive were Kitty, an Airedale belonging to John Jacob Astor; a King Charles Spaniel and another Airedale; a Toy Poodle; a Fox Terrier named Dog; a French Bulldog named Gamin de Pycombe; a Chow; and several unknown breeds. A woman named Elizabeth Ann Isham wanted to take her Great Dane with her on a lifeboat. She was told that the dog was too large, so she opted to stay on board with her dog. Several days later, the recovery ship Mackay-Bennett found her body
holding onto her dog. There was a cat rumored to be on board the Titanic, but several witnesses claim that they saw a cat, along with several kittens, get off the ship at Southampton.

6. B
Elizabeth Gladys Millvina Dean, the last living Titanic survivor, died on May 31, 2009. She was only nine weeks old when the ship sank. Her parents were emigrating from England to Kansas. The family traveled as third class passengers. Her father did not survive the sinking of the Titanic, but she, her mother, and her brother Bertram survived. Bertram died on April 14, 1992, exactly 80 years after the ship struck the iceberg. During her later years, Millvina’s healthcare became too expensive for her to afford. “Titanic” movie stars Leonardo Dicaprio and Kate Winslett donated $20,000 to a fund set up to assist her with medical expenses in April 2009—just one month before she died. Her ashes were scattered from a dock at Southampton, England--the Titanic's port of departure.

7. C
Captain Smith was planning to retire after sailing on the maiden voyage of the Titanic. His first
officer William Murdoch was the officer on the bridge when the Titanic struck the iceberg. Both men died on the ship. Second officer Charles Lightoller was helping to remove one of the
collapsible lifeboats when the rising seawater washed the boat away. Realizing there was nothing more he could do, he dived into the water, only to be sucked down by the sinking ship. A blast of hot hair from the ship came out of a ventilator and blew him to the surface. He was able to climb aboard the overturned collapsible lifeboat with 30 other people where they stayed until being rescued by other lifeboats. Third officer Herbert Pitman also survived.

8. A or B
The song most-widely thought to be the last one played by the Titanic’s orchestra is “Nearer my God to Thee,” however surviving wireless operator Harold Bride said that the last song played was “Song D’Automne.” The song “Eternal Father, Strong to Save,” was sung at the worship service held on the Titanic on April 14, 1912. “Asleep in the Deep” is a song written in 1897 that seems to foreshadow shipwrecks. Bandleader Wallace Hartley and seven other musicians famously played music as the Titanic was sinking, hoping to calm the nerves of the passengers. None of the men survived. Hartley’s body was found in the ocean almost two weeks after the Titanic sank. He was wearing his bandsman’s uniform and still had his music box strapped to his body.

9. B
When it became clear that the Titanic was going to sink, Captain Smith ordered that the lifeboats be filled with "women and children first." So most of the survivors were women and children, although a total of 338 men survived. Thirteen second class women went down with the ship, compared to only 4 first class women and 89 third class women. One first class child died, zero second class children died, and 52 third class children died. One of the second class women to perish with the ship was Irene Colvin Corbett, from Provo, Utah, who had been studying midwifery for six months in England.

10. A
In 1912, Hershey founder Milton S. Hershey paid a $300 deposit for a first class ticket on the Titanic. He was on a trip to Europe, but was requested to come back early to deal with some business issues. He left Europe three days early aboard the ship America. Interestingly, Alfred Vanderbilt, a wealthy American sportsman, died in 1915 aboard the RMS Lusitania, which was sunk by a torpedo during WWI.

In honor of the answer to question 10, everyone participating in the trivia game will receive a Hershey bar (with the old fashioned Hershey's label). It should be a good time . . . pictures to come in the future!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Baseball has Begun

We are excited that baseball season has arrived again! It will be hard to ever top last season for the St. Louis Cardinals, but they are looking pretty good so far, even without Albert Pujols. Greg and I went to our first baseball game last night--not a Cardinals game, but we went to a Peoria Chiefs vs. Quad Cities River Bandits game up in Peoria, which was fun because those two teams are the single A minor league teams for the Chicago Cubs and the St. Louis Cardinals. The Bandits (Cardinals team) won the game, so we were happy even though we like the Chiefs too. It was cold outside, but it felt good to be at a baseball game again.

I took this picture of Lily this morning while I was doing some arm workouts with my green resistance band. She is so funny--her favorite toy is a bright green shoelace, and often when I have my resistance band of the same color out, she goes and gets her shoelace and brings it downstairs, then plops down right by me. Then we workout together (actually she usually just lays there and watches me). She's a silly kitty.

I added two more questions to my Titanic trivia, for an even ten:

9. How many women traveling second class on the Titanic went down with the ship?
a. 0
b. 13
c. 25
d. 80

10. Which of these famous Americans was supposed to be on the Titanic, but left Europe early on a different ship?
a. Milton Hershey
b. Theodore Roosevelt
c. Alfred Vanderbilt
d. Andrew Carnegie

Answers to all of the trivia questions will be coming soon . . .